How would you act if the most stunningly attractive and physically perfect person suddenly sat down next to you?

If you were at home, you might tell them to get out of your house. But otherwise, we would likely be reduced to a stuttering mess. When someone so undoubtedly amazing suddenly becomes a point of comparison to us, we can’t help but feel inadequate. When we can’t seem to detect a flaw in someone, we grow tense and uptight, hiding our own shortcomings. Our insecurities instantly rise to the surface.

Perfect people scare and intimidate us.

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